Aita for not showing up to my birthday dinner So my (30F) birthday is coming up. AITA for not showing up for my birthday dinner at a nice restaurant knowing everyone was waiting for me and my parents had to pay a deposit for the table? I'm (16M) the second oldest of four. I don’t want to go because I don’t like him and I don’t have a relationship with him at all. So basically, someone hijacked your birthday party. Imagine telling your teenage kid she's 'selfish' for not being happy her drama queen sister chose to, once again, make her birthday party about herself! Your parents suck gigantic ass, OP - I'm sorry :( However, your husband being honest about why you’re not there at her birthday party is unnecessary. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you… Throwaway on mobile I(19f) have had a really rocky relationship with my dad(45) since I was young. Posted by u/Lillian_daigle2309 - 11,327 votes and 1,973 comments WIBTA for not attending my twin brothers surprise birthday dinner when I am only invited as a guest Would I be the asshole for not attending a surprise birthday dinner for my twin brother So I’m a twin, my brother and I hang out all the time and we are super close. They've had issues since I(24M) started going out with her 3 years ago. I was genuinely excited. the hotel my partner and i are staying is about 30-40 minutes away from my parents house (making this a 1 hour trip for 3-4 hours at the party). fbmrwpnxrycbepjmuvlqhvsyjknaqhywheozguedcwoimfjlgxbyezbdbcsglxwpgajxscgwdlfvgms